Thanksgiving Weekend
Don't Leave God Alone: How to Get God's Attention, Remain in His Presence, and Even Change His Mind to Make a Difference in Your WorldThanksgiving weekend marks the beginning of a domestic anecdote that becomes an extended metaphor for dreams that seem too decayed to recover. A roommate brought home a large bowl of taco salad prepared by his girlfriend, and the leftovers were stored in an oven because the oversized bowl did not fit in the refrigerator. What began as an ordinary holiday meal was transformed by neglect into a reminder that time can make an abandoned thing appear irredeemably ruined.
The Forgotten Meal
The taco salad was eaten in part and then left in the oven, where it remained because the two roommates could neither cook nor use the appliance. The narrative does not treat Thanksgiving weekend as a festive backdrop; it is the precise starting point of a chain of forgetfulness. The meal passed from immediate use into concealment, and concealment allowed deterioration to continue unseen.
Delay and Discovery
Months later, a rotten smell spread through the kitchen, leading the roommates back to the oven. The bowl contained matter so contaminated that the roommate threw the oversized Tupperware container onto the back porch rather than deal with it indoors. That solution proved temporary. In the spirit of bachelor living, they forgot the container again, until spring brought the odor back through the window and into the house. The passage thus gives time a recurring, physical presence: what was hidden during Thanksgiving weekend returns months later with greater force.
From Food to Horror
By the time the remains were found again, the substance was no longer recognizable as salad. The narrator describes it as something like a horrifying biology project, with a smell suggesting that something very large had died. The progression from food to unidentifiable rot makes the anecdote memorable because the object’s former identity has been overwhelmed by its accumulated history. The holiday meal is not merely old; it has become evidence of what neglect can do when nothing interrupts it.
Metaphor for Dead Dreams
The Thanksgiving weekend story is used to illuminate the phrase “by now it stinks,” associated with Martha’s response when Lazarus had been dead for four days. In the book’s application of that scene, Christians may look at an abandoned dream in the same way the roommates looked at the forgotten bowl: they see only the negative, smell the decay, and conclude that restoration is hopeless. Thanksgiving weekend therefore functions as the temporal hinge of the illustration. It identifies the moment when an apparently manageable matter was left unattended and shows how delay changes perception, making recovery seem more difficult than the original loss.